The Completion Series – Part II

Many people are fairly complete except for one thing. There is that one thing that is holding them back that they are simply resistant to do. This suggests that there are unconscious patterns that keep you from being in completion. Are you overcommitted? Over-committers want to do too much and, therefore, get very little done. Over-commitment is a self-sabotage move. We over-commit and then we go to bed every single night feeling incomplete. We have set ourselves up to feel like failures.

Are you a chronic procrastinator? Procrastinators don’t have to show up all the way! If you procrastinated writing a term-paper for school and then got a “C” on that paper, you can say it’s because you didn’t have enough time or that you put it off too long. By procrastinating, you gave yourself an unconscious excuse in case you didn’t do well. What if you went all-in and still only got a “C”? That idea may surprisingly scare you! Behind all of that procrastination of writing your paper, you probably spent endless hours with the thought of needing to work on that paper. Wasting time and energy thinking about doing it is a massive energy drain, it would take much less time to just do it and this energy drain reduces or depletes your impact.

Are you interested in a relationship that works? If you have 5 years worth of with-holding built up, how mad are you? With-holding takes up a ton of energy. You need to actually say what you want to say, don’t wait until “the appropriate time.” Say whatever it is as you feel it and get it out of the way.

Getting complete is not a moral issue. It is not about being good or bad. Living in a state of completion is an aliveness issue and an impact issue, as it gives you the ability to be effective.

Experts have followed Corporate Executives around for weeks and recognized certain trends as follows:

CEO’s have a 100% completion rate in their daily routines. No matter what came up during the day, the CEO’s gave the issue their full attention until the matter was complete. Then they moved on to the next thing.

Presidents (who are just one step down from the CEO) have an average of 5 incompletes in their daily routines.

Vice Presidents have an average of 14 incompletes in their daily routine.

The list goes on from there accordingly. Do you see the pattern?

This is because it took their efforts take more steps than the CEO because they split their attention instead of giving each situation their full attention. So, they were less effective and had less impact.

The more items that were left incomplete in their day, the less value they were providing to their company, and the lesser position they were granted. The less incompletes in the daily routine, the greater value they have to the company, and subsequently, the more money they were making.

People who are hanging out in incompletion are not having maximum impact. If you are spinning out of control, you must effectively complete what you start in order to have the energy to make a lasting impact.

The good news is that as you do complete things, you get huge energy releases. Think about the last time you completed a task that seemed daunting. Remember that giant exhale you took when you knew the task was actually complete? You freed up the energy you had stored away to actually complete that task. Now that source of energy is back within your body and you immediately feel better.

What are some of the reasons that we don’t complete? Are there any fears behind getting things complete?

Are you afraid of success? Will I lose my identity if this comes to completion?

Are you afraid of what may be coming up next once this item is complete? Are you in fear of the unknown that comes with completing something long overdue?

Could a part of your incompletion be a fear of accountability? (Such as, I’ve been working on this project for a long time and if I complete it and my boss isn’t happy with it, they will hold me accountable.) Your belief, therefore, may be that if I finish this I will be given additional responsibility and obligation.

How about the idea that if I don’t complete, then others won’t count on me to show up? Do you fail to complete because there is a great excuse that goes along with it? (“Honey, I would have been home on time but I was so busy working on that project!”) We use that busy to not show up and to hide out. That is a victim’s defense by the way. (I’m being held hostage by this project!) Is your failure to complete things possibly due to underlying guilt? (If I am accountable and my project doesn’t work, then I will feel guilty.)

Do I have a fear of being visible? If we are not hiding behind stuff that is not complete, then we are visible. What if people were focused on me rather than my project? If you are not able to complete, then expectations of you are lowered and you avoid additional responsibilities.

Have you ever had this underlying belief, “If I finished all of my projects and had time for myself, I would be selfish, and selfish is not a good thing,” or, “I would be bored and have nothing to do.”

How about this one, “I like it where I’m at…it is comfortable. What will be on the other side of this box if I move myself out of it?” This is a fear of the unknown.

Think about a time when you were so worried about something that you couldn’t sleep, or that you woke up in the night in a panic. That panic is undoubtedly about something that is not yet complete.

If you notice yourself feeling sleepy at the thought of all of this, it is because you are subconsciously dealing with completions in your brain. That is what the brain does. It searches for patterns. You are already beginning to feel the weight of what is going on. Notice your breathing and feelings. Get clear with them. There is a physical impact on your body. These are symptoms of the anxiety that being incomplete creates. So, if you are beginning to feel exhausted, physically move around the room, shake your body, flap your wings, clap your hands a little bit and bring your focus back to your list.

Look at your list of incompletion from today. How does it make you feel? Get a sense of this feeling because you are carrying it with you all of the time.

I knew of a case of a client who had Fibromyalgia and the person was full of incompletion issues. Their Life Coach helped them form a list of those incompletion items and as they cleaned up the messes, the pain left their body. We are not designed to be incomplete, we are designed to finish.

It all boils down to 3 things:

1. Fear of Aliveness. (How alive are we willing to be?)
2. Fear of Death. (If we complete that project, it is done…dead. We are scared of the open space that completion creates.)
3. Fear of Making an Impact. I invite you to ask yourself, “Where have I been the most afraid to make an impact?” “Where would I like to have an impact the most in my own life?”

The reason we don’t have an impact is only because we are afraid. We exaggerate the fear by creating a big story about how scary it is to do what we want to do. You let the story stop you. How does it feel to be helpless about making the impact that you want to make instead of just feeling the fear? Usually, that is just a fear that you have been afraid to feel. This can show up as withdrawing, avoidance, and paralyzing fear. We want something that we’ve never experienced before. What is between you and what you want is just something you haven’t felt yet.


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Choosing The Right Materials For Fence Installation

Installation of a fence is one of the important enhancements to any compound. Installation of a fence serves among other things to ensure the compound remains safe and secure. The value of the compound also increases with the fence installed. The choice of fencing materials used however determines the range of benefits enjoyed by its installation. This also comes as a determining factor in the event of ascertaining the probable cost of the fence to install. It is important however, to understand the features that come with the different materials available.

Wood is one of the traditional materials used in fencing. In modern times, it is among the most common materials used for this purpose. Alongside offering high levels of privacy, wood remains an easily available material and comes at a low cost. Wooden fence comes with the option to enhance its appearance through painting as well as design patterns. Regular maintenance of the fence comes in handy in this respect to give it capacity to last longer.

Vinyl offers with a long-lasting fence. The vinyl material in this regard is not affected by wrapping and rust. The biggest advantage in this material comes with ability to overcome most of the weather effects considered to be harmful. The vinyl fence does not require any maintenance practices to enable it to have a longer life. It biggest challenge is the high cost of acquisition and the delicate installation process it requires.

Use of plastic polymer and wooden fiber combined offers with a great choice of the fencing materials to use. The outcome of the combination looks similar to the wooden option. Its biggest advantage comes in its capacity to last much longer. Cost of these materials is much higher compared to other options and also requires to be installed in a process that observes caution.

Fencing materials also come in handy when crated from metallic materials. Choices available with this material are numerous owing to many different type of metal available today. The metal options offer with a durable choice for the fencing needs as well as one that comes with low maintenance costs. Some of the metal options such as chain links do not offer with the desirable levels of privacy. Levels of security in using these materials also vary but remains questionable in certain instances.

A suitable consideration when seeking for fences is the masonry options. These come with a wide range of materials and also offer with room to create desirable designs for the fence. The cost of masonry fences vary with the choice of materials selected swell as the design used. Capacity to last for extended period comes as the biggest advantage with this option but this comes with ensuring maintenance options are in place.

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Things to Do to Make Money Fast

When you are hard-pressed for cash, it is good for you to think about solutions that can help you to get out of that point. You can think of ideas that are able to help you to become liquid very fast. One of the interesting things however is that you can actually be able to get very good results especially when you consider the different methods that people have been using over time. It is information that you need so that you can be able to make money in the shortest time possible, that is something that you have to consider. If you can work with companies that will be willing to help you with this, then it is going to work out but unfortunately, this is very rare. The most important thing is to realize that there are actually some legitimate ways and this article will give you a number. One of the things you’re going to realize is that you can sell your stuff especially, what you’re not using at the moment. You could easily identify items that you have never been using for very long time, these are the ones that you should be selling.

Selling your unused gift cards is also an option that you should be willing to make today, it is going to be of benefit to you in a very big way. Sometimes, the gift cards might have actually been over a very high value and that is why selling them can be a good idea. To your surprise, it may actually be very easy for you to sell the gift cards to other people. Another thing that you can do is to get some free things and you can sell them for profit. You will notice that while some people may be throwing out some valuable things during the garbage day, this might be the perfect opportunity for you to make some money because, some of these things might be valuable. Some of the examples of these things include TV sets, furniture and many others. It might be shocking to you about the amount of money you will be able to get just by doing this. Another opportunity that is available especially if you have a vehicle is to drive around, it is going to be very helpful especially when you work with ridesharing companies.

Another thing that you can do is to get one of the rooms within your home and you can rent it out. Getting some short-term jobs can help you to make money especially within your area.


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Necessity of Taking care of the Pets

There are numerous factors that should be considered before setting up the chip to the animal. Protection of the pets well- being is important in reducing the stress that is experienced when the pet disappears. It is a good feel when you have in mind that the pet is safe in the place that is staying. There are lesser chances of setting the measures to get the pet back. This makes the use of the microchips necessary for the pets. Various individuals lack content about the use of the microchips that effect the safety of the animals.

The microchip is a simple capsule that has a number of different parts in it allowing it to work. The microchip is installed in any section of the pets body. It is necessary to note that the chip is biocompatible. The use of the chips will work on the body for the pet with reduced health defects on its body. The microchip has a special type of the polymer that will ensure that contact with the pets body. The microchips are the permanent feature on the animals body. The tissues that gets hurt during the application of the microchips in the animals body will get healed over time. This healing makes the removal of the chip hard.

It is not important to charge the chip set up I the animal. The chip will operate with the strong beams of light. This will expose the special number that is noted on the chip. The type of the pet that requires the chip is a dog. Frequently, the dog runs away from the home a number of times The life of the pet owner after purchasing the microchip will be easy. The chip does not get depleted The information will be put in the microchip when it is getting installed in the body of the pet. A number of the pets already have the chip implanted on their bodies before sale.

A number of people will ignore the types of the chip whose installation process causes pain. The steps that gets included in setting the chip on the body of the animal ill cause minimum hurt on the animal. It is an easy procedure that will be carried out on the pet. The chip is managed through making a gunshot to the body. The pet is likely to feel the muscles bit damaged at the website. The time that is taken for the pet to heal is limited. Buying the microchip for your pets will protect your finances. Get assistance from the professional who handles the animals.